Mötley Crüe drummer Tommy Lee’s wife, Brittany Furlan Lee, had a hilarious message for women sliding into her husband’s DMs as she celebrated his 64th birthday on Instagram.
Brittany shared a new post for Tommy’s birthday, writing in the caption, “Happy bday to the big dawg.” But she also used the post to send a playful warning to women who have been trying to get Tommy’s attention through social media messages.
“Y’all in his dm’s and I’m on his nerves. We are not the same,” Brittany wrote within the post, making it clear that she knows exactly what is happening in Tommy’s inbox — and jokingly highlighting the difference between those trying to get his attention and the woman who is actually married to him.
Tommy Lee responded to his wife’s birthday tribute with an equally playful message, writing, “I f*cking love you babe….. you’re my Wing to my Wang….wait!…I mean you’re my ying to my yang!”

The exchange gave fans another glimpse into the couple’s playful dynamic, with Brittany turning Tommy’s birthday celebration into a humorous message aimed at women attempting to slide into the rock star’s DMs.
Brittany Furlan and Tommy Lee have been married since 2019.